Things To Remember When You Lose Your Job.
Posted: Wednesday, January 21, 2009
by Ben Ramsey
Ramsey Solutions
More and more Americans are loosing their jobs, and with todays economy the end doesn't seem in sight. Those with families are suffering the most. Many time children do not understand why the families outings and routines have to be compromised because mommy or daddy is out of work. All in all it can be an extremely stressful time.
Many people define themselves by their job, and without a job they often lose their identity when their job ends. Psychologist report that more many, losing a job can have the same traumatic results as losing a loved one. It's not surprising that after a job loss people become depressed. But not all is loss, there are ways to cope in these situations.
One thing is certanin when you lose your job, you will have less money. So, create a budget and plan out how to survive until you find another job. It's hard not to have steady income, you will have to cut out some of the things you are accustomed to doing - unnecessary spending is out. You can also make a list of ways you can make some money until you're employed full-time. Check out craigslinst for odd jobs or contact a temp. agency.
It's important not to become impatient, it will only lead to more stress that will make this time harder on you and those around you. Try to relax, and don't get discouraged if you don't find a jobright away. In todays economy it may take awhile, so it's important to find something to keep you busy. Like I said before, find a part-time or temporary job during your search for full-time employment. It's estimated that it takes most people 3 to 6 months to find a job that is close to the one they had prior to losing theirs. Just be sure that you make fidning a new job your main priority. Apply or send a resume to any jobyou find on a job board like monster.com, careerbuilder.com; look at your local paper's job listing. Try to make yourself known to at least one prospective employer each day - regardless of the time it takes to find a new job. This is really important, because unless employers know you are out there and available they will choose someone else.
And remember, your job loss doesn't just effect you, but your entire family as well. Try to have a positive attitude, and look for a new job everyday. Keep in mind that there are millions of people who have lost their job - it's a painful and difficult time, but it is only temporary. You will make it, just hang in there.
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Top-level comments on this article: (2 total)Hi Ben, its great to see you being positive about this situation. You are right, its temporary and we should not equate our value as a person with a job. Love, family, and friendship should speak volumes. Lord bless your positive and supportive attitude. I pray many read your articles and see hope. I am joinging your fan club :-)
Ben, this is the first time I read your articles. Hope you are doing well. Loved the way you express yourself and you're right about everything you said. I DO Thank you for those wonderful, positive and meaninful words..Many blessing to you and your family.
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